I will always be eternally grateful for Dr. Alexander. She had plenty of life lessons for me. Just when I thought I had mastered something, she came back harder, lol. She just had to teach me more and I loved every minute of it. Towards the end, she surprised me with a beautiful pink rose bush and shared all of her wonderful kind thoughts of me and the feeling was mutual. Her last words to me were, “Keep the faith, believe a better way is coming, stay strong, I love you and miss you.” WOW… that was my Dr. Alexander. I pray that her family will draw comfort and peace from her last words to me.
Rest in heaven my dear friend! You and I will meet again! Love, Karen
Donna Alexander was a natural teacher. She would encourage, mentor, praise and offer guidance. There will be many times in the days to come that her words of advice will come to mind. Donna’s kindness toward others and support of our students will be missed. I will miss our impromptu conversations, her smile and the way her eyes would light up when sharing a story. Donna could be quite funny-especially when trying to repeat a joke! She became a good friend after coming to RCC.
I wish Donna’s family much comfort as they approach the days ahead.
Donna’s smile and empathy filled any room she sat in. I will miss that soul.
Dr. Alexander was beautiful, smart, and always had kind reassuring words encouraging everyone to be their best.
A Tribute to Dr. Avis Donna Alexander
Dr. Avis Donna Alexander departed this life on November 30, 2020, after a long and courageous battle with cancer. Donna led a life filled with accomplishment, beginning her higher education at John Tyler Community College before continuing to complete her bachelor’s degree in English, followed by a master’s degree and Ph.D. in Psychology, all at Virginia Commonwealth University. She subsequently worked serving in different capacities as a medical grant coordinator at MCV before starting her career in the Virginia Community College System as a Professor of Psychology at Northern Virginia Community College and John Tyler Community College. She later served as Dean of Arts and Science for JTCC and capped her career as Vice President of Instruction and Student Development at Rappahannock Community College. She accomplished all of this while raising her four children.
Donna began her academic career while still in graduate school acting as coordinator and researcher on a large project researching medical decision making, when treating patients with congestive heart failure. The research was definitive, resulted in saving countless lives, and improving the quality of life for an enumerable number of individuals around the world.
Although successful and published in medical decision-making research, Donna’s passion was education. Coming from a large family and being the eldest sister, her first students were younger siblings, and she was a natural teacher. She strongly believed in providing others the same opportunity for education she had and returned to teach in the Virginia Community College System. Recognized as a leader, she was selected as Dean of the Arts and Sciences at John Tyler Community College where she was integral in the expansion of JTCC including the opening of the Midlothian campus. Always seeking opportunities for growth, she was selected to serve as Vice President at Rappahannock Community College, where she worked with school and community leaders to provide new opportunities for her students including opening the RCC site in New Kent.
Most important to Donna was her family, for whom she worked hard every day. She is survived by her husband, Dr. Gene Gourley; her children, Alex and his wife Amber, Nicholas and his wife Sarah, Katherine and her husband Ramon, and Grey; her grandchildren, Tyler, Sarah, Emelia Anastasia, Josephina, Angelina, Bryce, and Thomas; her siblings, Edward, Ivan, Andy, Shelley, and Emmet, and numerous other family and friends, who supported her over the years.
Donna was preceded in death by her father, Edward Vernon Alexander of Tarboro, NC and her mother, Marie Carol Welch of Chester, VA. In lieu of flowers, donations in Donna’s memory may be made to the Rappahannock Community College Educational Foundation or the Johns Hopkins Kimmel Cancer Center. Due to COVID-19, the family will wait until the Spring to hold a Funeral with Holy Eucharist at the Fork Church in Doswell, Virginia. Information will be posted at www.forkchurch.com when available
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